Why do I feel a pressure to transition when it’s not there?

2021.09.23 20:58 BasedSufjan Why do I feel a pressure to transition when it’s not there?

Hey y’all. Relatively new MtF gal here who just recently went public with my gender. I’m pre-op, pre-therapy, pre-everything. I want to see a therapist as soon as possible but quite frankly I’ve been too busy. I just started a new job as a social worker, I’m moving into a new apartment, and was just recently engaged (my fiancée has been overwhelmingly supportive of my identity). As much as I’m dying to start my transition it’s just not a good time rn.
For the time being I’ve become more confident with wearing makeup outside the house, shave more frequently, I found a hairdresser who has no problem doing more feminine cuts for me, and I’ve updated my wardrobe to be more feminine.
I’m doing the best I can and everyone is so supportive but for some reason I can’t shake this feeling of being a poser. Furthermore I’m pansexual though I have a preference toward other women but I still feel self hatred for being with a woman. I feel like I’m a straight dude with makeup sometimes. Or like I’m just a cross dresser, or a “trap” or any of the other awful terms used to degrade trans woman. I feel like a woman, and I’m trying to look like a woman, but deep down I’m terrified that I’m just a creepy man who likes to wear woman’s clothes.
Is this normal? Any words of encouragement would be very helpful. I’ve always known I’m a woman but now that I can actually say it and mean it for some reason it feels so far away, and I feel like if I don’t transition as fast as possible I’ll never be good enough for myself or anyone else.
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2021.09.23 20:58 ErrorTarren Akura Justice

Justice is an Archlord and apparently has been "stuck" there for a long time. I can't imagine there is any reason as a member of the main branch of the Akura family he would lack the resources necessary to be anything but a peak Archlord.
In Uncrowned he laments about not having the talents of Lindon at such a young age and that if he did he wouldn't be stuck at Archlord IIRC.
As a peak Archlord there's nothing stopping him from attempting to become a herald, unless he doesn't want to ascend. So is his being "stuck" an artifact of will not having advancement completely fleshed out yet when he wrote that?
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2021.09.23 20:58 yonkon Special envoy for Haiti resigns over Biden deportations

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2021.09.23 20:58 pinkflowerz 1 month post op and I still can't pronounce certain words

I had my tonsils and adenoids removed on 8/17 and had a pretty unremarkable recovery. A month later and there are certain words I am still having trouble saying.. like 'pool' and 'toilet' does anyone else have this problem
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2021.09.23 20:58 Bjorn74 Facebook's Podcast features

My 3 shows were allowed to add the rss feed to their pages on Tuesday. Now that they are added, each page has posts for each episode less than 2 weeks old. So far so good.
But...
The markup in the episode notes is left in and they haven't been taking the title from the feed. Is there a way to add markup to the notes template to add that to the notes?
And unrelated to Pinecast, I haven't gotten the podcast tab on my pages yet, 2 days later. It doesn't look like there's anything I can do about that right now. I don't have the menus the FB FAQs mention.
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